The question How does a woman reject an unsuitable man? was closed as off-topic for the reason of asking about a behavior of individual person. However, I fail to see how this reason stands. The symptoms the OP lists are not enough to draw any individual. It goes along with General strategies for converting self-help into a useful general question for this site.
Can you elucidate me why it was closed? How should it be fixed?
For comparison, in Health Stack Exchange - a site which also accept non-self help questions and answers with citations only, such questions are perfectly normal. For example:
The following tooth cracks are noticeable when a torch is shining on them (without the torch, they aren't visible). Are they serious? How viable are the teeth, and might they need to be replaced with false teeth in the near future? There is no pain experienced, but they seem to look quite bad: